Thursday, June 23, 2011

Reaching Out From Beyond the Grave?

When I moved here last summer, I assumed my husband and I had left all family behind in New York, including the grave of our little daughter, Elizabeth. But some very bizarre trips back in time uncovered quite the opposite.


I first became intrigued by Mystic’s dead while researching the “back stories” for my article, "The 7 Wonders of Mystic.” Deciding that the Memorial Arch of Elm Grove Cemetery was a “Wonder,” I drove past the markers of the 13,000 souls buried there, many on the “Who’s Who” list of 19th century ship builders and sea captains, and looked for one to highlight. I became intrigued by a tall obelisk along the Mystic River depicting the steamship, City of Waco. The grave marker tells how Captain Thomas E. Wolfe died piloting her when it caught fire off the port of Galveston in 1875. Articles in the New York Times gave an account of Wolfe’s command of a vessel during the Civil War that transported supplies from New York to New Orleans until his capture by the Confederate navy. His boat burned, he was taken prisoner, but made a daring escape with some companions over a year later. After the war, he became a pilot for the State of Texas until his steamship exploded in flames and sank, killing all on board. His body was recovered and shipped back to Mystic.


With “The 7 Wonders” article finished, and a vote for the 8th Wonder conducted by Patch, I was curious to learn about the potential “Wonders” suggested by the public. I began by purchasing a copy of the Mystic River Historical Society’s walking tour booklet, Curbstones, Clapboards and Cupolas. Reading about the historic homes and former residents of West Mystic Avenue, which now extends to Allyn St. where I live, I was intrigued when I read, "Contractor Allyn built #12 for his brother-in-law (who could not make payments). Captain Charles Sisson bought the house in 1858 after an unsuccessful search for gold in California.” Could that Sisson be a long-ago relative of mine?

I contacted David Sisson, my cousin who has done extensive research on the Sisson line. Yes, Captain Charles Sisson was my cousin--and he had lived only 10 houses down from me! Captain Charles Sisson and I are fourth cousins five times removed, both descending from Thomas and Jane (Freeman) Sisson.


Not only were we cousins, which was enough to thrill me, but after his wife Ann died at sea in 1876, he married the widow of Captain Thomas E. Wolfe—the Civil War hero in my "Wonders” article! It turns out that Charles and Captain Wolfe were boyhood friends who searched for the California gold together—and married sisters! I couldn’t wait to visit the graves of Captain Charles Sisson and his first wife Ann at nearby Lower Mystic Cemetery, because I wouldn’t just be visiting interesting people, I’d be visiting family.


Their grave markers were not difficult to find in this small cemetery on Route 1. Charles’s tall stone, engraved with a sailing ship, declares: “The voyage is ended.” Ann’s marker is similar, but was placed in memory of her because she was buried at sea—with the stone giving the coordinates. When I saw a small grave marker nearby, I felt this must be the reason I was led here. On it was the name of their 10-month-old daughter. Engraved with “Our Little Ida,” I felt I was given a place to grieve for my own daughter, whose marker is engraved, “Our Little Girl.”


Taking my husband, Jim, there the following weekend, I thought I was going to show him where I had some dead relatives. Standing in front of their markers, we saw another couple walking around looking at stones. “Excuse me,” the man yelled over to us, “Would you happen to know if there are any Sissons buried here?”


Stunned, I yelled back, “Yes there are—and we're standing in front of them! I’m related to them!”


The man replied, “My name is Matthew Sisson.” A captain in the Coast Guard, Matthew told me he wasn’t sure if he was related to Captain Charles Sisson, but he couldn’t wait for me to find out. He mentioned that his Sisson family was coming from as far away as California to attend his upcoming Change of Command Ceremony in June. He just happened to stop at this little cemetery on the off-chance he would find some Sissons there.


Another flurry of e-mails to my cousin David Sisson revealed that Captain Matthew J.Sisson and I are distant cousins too!*


On Thursday, June 23, I went to Matthew’s Change of Command Ceremony at Fort Trumbull State Park in New London—and met a lot more cousins!


End Note:
If Captain Charles Sisson is still working from beyond the grave to reveal more Mystic secrets, such as that he and his friend Captain Wolfe did find gold in California, buried it somewhere, and want me to know where it is, I plan to look for clues at the Collections Research Center at Mystic Seaport, where Sisson's captain’s logs are reportedly stored among other important documents. Perhaps I will find out more about Captains Sisson's and Wolfe's treacherous trip back from California, which claimed the life of their third companion (who is buried near Captain Sisson). I will also look further into the circumstances of Wolfe's death in the steamship explosion because the inquest included some disturbing eye-witness accounts.

Another cousin of mine, genealogist Carol Sisson Regehr, was given Captain Sisson's family bible from Col. John Sisson, who received it as a gift from a friend who found it in a resale shop. Carol then donated the bible to the Mystic Seaport Museum. Through that and the captain's logs I hope to find out why Sisson's first wife, Ann, died at sea at the age of 45 on the ship, Jeremiah Thompson.

Captain Charles Sisson’s home on 12 West Mystic Ave, Mystic, which looks very much the same today, can be seen at: http://homepages.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~dasisson/richard/images/7dda06.jpg

The information available on the Ancestry.com site (which includes a photo of Captain Sisson’s Bible) at http://homepages.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~dasisson/richard/aqwg114.htm#32218,
states: “Charles was shipmaster of the Bridgewater, Jeremiah Thompson, and Thomas Dana… Charles married (1) Ann E. SAWYER...She died 12 May 1876 at sea on ship "Jeremiah Thompson.”
According to the Mystic River Historical Society’s walking tour booklet, Curbstones, Clapboards and Cupolas, Sisson "commanded the clipper ships Elizabeth F. Willetts and Mary Sutton." Eight volumes of his journals from 1863-1882 are said to be in the G. W. Blunt White Library at the Mystic Seaport Museum. 
Attention Sisson family members and/or descendents: To learn more about Sisson genealogy, visit:http://homepages.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~dasisson/, where you can do family searches, learn about current genealogy projects, and the next bi-annual Sisson Gathering in Albany, NY, in 2012 (the purpose of these gatherings is to learn about ongoing Sisson research in the U.S. and England). To participate in Sisson-related conversions, join the Sisson listserve by registering at: http://homepages.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~dasisson/research.htm

*My cousin David Sisson said that Matthew Sisson and I share ancestry back to Richard and Mary Sisson, an immigrant couple who were in Rhode Island (and later Plymouth Colony) by 1650. I descend from Richard and Mary's oldest son George, and Matthew Sisson descends from their son James.

Captain Charles Sisson and I are fourth cousins five times removed, both descending from Thomas and Jane (Freeman) Sisson.

The 7 Wonders of Mystic: Mystic Pizza and Beyond!


When most people think of the tiny seacoast village of Mystic, Connecticut, they think of the movie, “Mystic Pizza,” starring Julia Roberts and debuting Matt Damon. Yet when they visit this maritime community located half-way between New York and Boston they find a lot more than pizza!
Included in National Geographic’s 100 “America’s Best Adventure Town,” this historic shipbuilding district has welcomed such notable honeymooners as Humphrey Bogart and Lauren Bacall and currently attracts tourists from all over the world. Aside from the picturesque Mystic River lined with the Greek revival homes of noted sea captains, and Mystic Seaport’s 19th century village, exhibits and ships, visitors also come to experience the quaint shops, nationally reviewed restaurants, and the Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration, where the discoverer of the grave of the R.M.S. Titanic, keeps his home office.
Like the ancient Greek historians who compiled "The Seven Wonders of the World," I too, with the help of locals, compiled a list of seven, awe-inspiring “must-sees” in Mystic. I decided that for a site to make it onto the “Wonders” list, it should be man-made, free to view from land or boat (some do charge admission to enter),open in all seasons; and be located in Mystic. All are within a two-mile walk or bike ride from the Mystic Train Depot.
1. Mystic River Drawbridge
If you’re strolling across the bridge in historic downtown Mystic happily licking your ice-cream cone and suddenly have ringing in your ears, don’t be alarmed--everyone else is hearing it too.
But you must act fast because the bridge is about to lift. Once the bridge operator, who is watching you from a little house perched above, sees that you are safely to one side, he will pull the whistle cord signaling to the mariners on the river below that the bridge is ready to rise.
Watching the historic 1922 bridge lifted by massive, overhead concrete counterweights is thrilling to pedestrians as well as to the bridge operators, called tenders, who man the bridge house 24 hours a day (yes, there is a bathroom).
Bridge tender Bruce Sullivan, known around Mystic as “Sully," said, “I have the best view to watch all kinds of vessels go through-- schooners, clippers, sloops, tugboats.” He was particularly excited to watch the maiden voyage of the Amistad replica, built at Mystic Seaport. ”I’ve seen the yachts of Steven Spielberg, Clint Eastwood and Phil Donahue.” How does he know those were celebrity yachts? “Because they stood on their decks and waved up to me!”
This National Historic Landmark is itself a celebrity and was prominently featured in the movie, “Mystic Pizza.” Sully got to meet Julia Roberts and crew during the filming in 1987.
Bridge tender Rod Coleman was especially thrilled to meet former President Jimmy Carter who shook his hand and personally thanked him for keeping the bridge down during the tightly- timed schedule created by Secret Service for Carter’s motorcade. Carter and former first lady Rosalynn were staying in Mystic for the 2004 christening of the Navy submarine, Jimmy Carter, in nearby Groton, CT.
Located on Route 1, the Mystic River Drawbridge replaced a steel swing bridge. A prior wooden bridge used oxen to turn the span and another bridge posted the sign, “WALK YOUR HORSES,” to keep vibrations to a minimum. Before the first bridge was built in 1819, people crossed the river by ferry.
For more information, contact the Mystic River Historical Society: mystichistory.org, 860-536-4779.



2. Charles W. Morgan -- last wooden whaleship in the world
A mammoth wooden boat on dry land—has someone heard it’s time to build another ark? Currently towering above the homes along the Mystic River, at the corner of Isham and Bay Streets, is the last wooden whaleship in the world, the Charles W. Morgan
Presently undergoing restoration at Mystic Seaport, this oldest American commercial ship has sailed more leagues of ocean than any other American whaleship in history, witnessing floggings; stowaways; drownings; desertions; amputations; burials at sea; and men who disappeared over the horizon forever in a “Nantucket sleigh ride”—the high-speed whaleboat ride sometimes given by a harpooned whale.
Despite the restoration process, paying visitors can climb a staircase to board this lone surviving wooden representation of America’s first international industry—one the colonists learned from Native American Indians and where a man of color could earn the same wage as a white man. 
Visitors to the Morgan will not only see the industry side of whaling, like the brick furnace used to process the blubber into oil, but they will also see the personal side, such as the captain’s cabin that includes a private “head” (toilet to the sea), sitting room, and a gimbal (always level) bed installed by a captain so his wife could sleep comfortably, despite the pitch of the sea. 
When you touch the Morgan, launched during the height of the whaling industry in 1841, you are not only touching a vessel that has survived typhoons, hurricanes, crushing ice, stirrings of a mutiny, and an attack by Pacific Islanders, you are also touching a movie star! Featured in several films, including Steven Spielberg’s “Amistad,” with Morgan Freeman seen below decks, the Charles W. Morgan can be viewed in her original role as a whaling ship in a 1922 film playing inside Mystic Seaport.
When actor William Hurt climbed aboard the Morgan to prepare for his role as Captain Ahab in the T.V. mini-series, “Moby Dick,” he sat on a sailor’s bunk with Mystic Seaport staff members and talked for an hour about what life aboard a whaleship must have been like. “This is the only place in the world where he could have done that,” said Matthew Stackpole, a member of the Morgan Restoration Project team.
The Morgan arrived at Mystic Seaport, the nation’s leading 19-acre maritime museum, in 1941. Since then, approximately 20 million visitors have crossed her decks.
Mystic Seaport depicts life in a 19th century seafaring village and includes hands-on exhibits for children.
More information: mysticseaport.org, 860-572-0711.


3. Mystic Pizza Restaurant Sign
How does an ordinary lighted restaurant sign, “Mystic Pizza: A Slice of Heaven,” rate as a Mystic wonder? Because visitors still flock to this symbol of the 1988 romantic comedy, "Mystic Pizza," starring Julia Roberts and debuting Matt Damon (his only line,"Mom, do you want my green stuff?" was said while eating lobster).
The Zelepos family, owners of Mystic Pizza, state, “Incredibly, our little pizza shop caught the eye of screenwriter Amy Jones, who was summering in the area. Ms. Jones chose Mystic Pizza as the focus and setting for her story of the lives and loves of three young waitresses.” The movie depicts life in a small fishing village and was filmed in Mystic and the surrounding communities.
The locals will never forget the day that Hollywood came to town—just ask Mystic shopkeepers, waiters, and tour guides what it was like to accommodate the 80-member film crew. Most have a story to tell—how the bridge operator needed to raise the drawbridge on cue; how local fishermen advised actors on stringing bait; or how they have a friend who moved into a hotel while a scene was shot in her home. Local racing sailor Katie Bradford says, “I’m friends with the guy, Skip, who was actually steering the boat in the Mystic River scene, but he had to do it lying on his back so an actor would appear steering.” Katie also tells how another friend became a local celebrity simply because the back of his head made it into the movie!
More than 20 years after the movie’s release, film production companies still can’t get enough of Mystic Pizza. Restaurant co-owner John Zelepos recently received a call from California asking if his restaurant and family would star in a reality T.V. show.
If you’ve never seen the film, given a “two thumbs up” from popular movie critics Siskel and Ebert, you will have your chance by peering into the restaurant where it plays continuously on three screens. “It’s on mute--otherwise, we’d go nuts!” confided one waitress. The restaurant sells souvenirs (and pizza, of course) and proudly displays movie photos, posters and newspaper clippings featuring the restaurant. The waitresses even have a little fun by dressing up a mannequin as Daisy, the Julia Roberts character in the film, and changing her hair accessories to match the colors of the season.
For more information about Mystic Pizza restaurant, visit mysticpizza.com or call (860) 536-3737. To see which scenes were filmed where, follow the movie trail map available at: http://www.mysticchamber.org/doc/1/Mystic%20Pizza%20Movie%20Trail%20-%20Web.pdf



4. The “Hanging Gardens” of Enders Island
Out of a widow’s loneliness sprang a stone landscape so intriguing, it should be referred to as the “Hanging Gardens” of Enders Island. But you must stroll through slowly if you hope to appreciate the absurdity of a brass bird spigot beside a cat statue, or the whimsy of a heart-shaped stone path.
The driving force behind this maze of rock hedges and archways was Alys E. Enders, widow of Dr. Thomas B. Enders, son of the president of Aetna Life Insurance Company. Having outlived Thomas by many years, Alys found a way to ensure companionship on her 11-acre island estate.
“She was always adding onto her mansion and gardens just to keep the workers from leaving the grounds!” says Jeffrey Anderson, Executive Director of St. Edmunds Retreat, the Catholic oasis that now occupies the island. Alys donated her estate to the Catholic Church upon her death in 1954.
Worried you might not be welcome—especially if you’re not Catholic? The website states: “Not a Catholic? Not a problem…all are welcomed to enjoy the peaceful natural beauty of our island.”
And peace you will surely find as you listen to the waves of Fishers Island Sound slap against the rocky shore and stroll past tiled pools, fountains, and Alys’s former tea house, the three-sided “Seaside Chapel” that protects an altar covered with hand-written prayers, funeral cards of missed loved ones, and unlit cigarettes cast off by repentant smokers. On the concrete floor are Alys’s initials, A.E.E., presumably engraved by her in 1951.
The island’s mansion and chapel, which displays relics, including the actual arm of Saint Edmund who preached for the Sixth Crusade in 1228, are used for twelve step recovery programs, spiritual development retreats, sacred art workshops and daily mass. Jams and jellies (some with names like "Fire and Brimstone" Hot Pepper Jelly), made from fruit grown on the island, are available in the gift shop.
Although you must travel the private roads of Masons Island to reach Enders Island, you are allowed to pass through this gated community if St. Edmund’s Retreat is your destination.
For more information about St. Edmunds Retreat, visit endersisland.com or call 860-536-0565.


5. Elm Grove Cemetery Memorial Arch
The “Pearly Gates?” Not exactly-- these gates are made of iron, but the colossal arch to the Elm Grove Cemetery does beckon you in. Afraid to cross through the Memorial Arch to the “other” side? Well, if you’re a bride, you’ll actually be sent there!
Located along the Mystic River, one hotel representative said of the cemetery, “It is the most valuable real estate in Mystic-- too bad the people there can’t enjoy it!  But we do recommend it for wedding photography because it is so very beautiful.” 
The founders of this “garden cemetery,” designed in the shape of an elm tree, intended the public to stroll leisurely along the river to view statues of women in flowing robes, angels, marble benches, mausoleums, and an elegant duck pond--with some very strange looking ducks! According to James Davis, superintendent of the cemetery, there are White Pekings, Muschovies, Kyugas, Blue Swiss, and Mallards.
More than 13,000 souls, many on Mystic’ss“Who’ssWho” list of century ship builders and sea captains, have been laid to rest there. If you’re in the mood to read, bring your tissues because one old grave marker tells how a two-year-old daughter, Matilda, drowned on New Year’s Day in 1858; and an obelisk depicting the steamship, City of  Waco, tells how Captain Thomas E. Wolfe died piloting her when it caught fire off the port of Galveston in 1875.  During the Civil War, Wolfe had commanded a vessel that transported supplies from New York to New Orleans until his capture by the Confederate navy. His boat burned, he was taken prisoner but made a daring escape with some companions more than a year later. After the war, he became a pilot for the State of Texas until his steamship exploded in flames and sank, killing all onboard. Wolfe’s body was recovered and shipped by steamboat to Mystic. Wolfe’s widow, Frances, married widower Captain Charles Sisson in 1878.* 
“Another captain from Mystic who is buried at Elm Grove is Joseph Warren Holmes who has the distinction of rounding Cape Horn safely 84 times as a sailing ship master.  This is a record that still stands,” says Bill Peterson, Mystic historian.
The Mystic citizens were so supportive of the new Elm Grove Cemetery, formally dedicated in 1854, that some dug up their dead relatives and replanted them there. But they were outraged in the 1890s when the widow of a prominent shipbuilder, Charles Henry Mallory, donated funds in her husband’s memory for the erection of the Memorial Arch entryway because it meant the removal of two elms to accommodate its massive span. Despite the public outcry, however, against a manmade object replacing “Nature’s grand handiwork,” the trees came down, stone cutters were imported from Italy, and the Memorial Arch was completed with the verse, “He Gives His Beloved Sleep,” engraved across the back. Perhaps the citizens learned to appreciate the Memorial Arch after the Hurricane of 1938—for it survived, but half of the cemetery’s trees did not. More information: elmgrovecemetery.org, (860) 536-7834.


6. Mystic Aquarium’s Ocean Planet Pavilion
Strolling through Olde Mistick Village, a colonial, New England style shopping center, you will travel back in time as you nibble your homemade fudge. Then suddenly, you are shocked into another world when you catch sight of a massive, blue crown-like structure rising out of the back parking lot.
Although you might wonder if you are about to come face to face with King Neptune, what you are actually seeing is the outside structure of Mystic Aquarium’s Challenge of the Deep exhibition, where its creator, the discoverer of the grave of the R.M.S. Titanic, Dr. Robert Ballard, keeps his home office.
Your reaction to this nautical sighting is exactly what famed international architect, Cesar Pelli, was going for. He states, “The sculptural form of the building is focused inward, invoking the sense of mystery to be discovered in the depths of the ocean below.” Pelli has designed some of the world’s most recognizable structures, including the Petronas Towers in Malaysia, formerly the world's tallest buildings; and Canary Wharf Tower in London, Britain’s tallest building.
Challenge of the Deep is attached to Mystic Aquarium, where Pelli also designed the glass entryway canopy. Reminiscent of the Statue of Liberty’s crown, it’s called the Ocean Planet Pavilion. Pelli’s goal here is to transform the visitor into an explorer. He states: “In this aquarium, the visitors have entered a new environment-- they have left behind our known world.”
But don’t worry, when you cross under the glass canopy to enter this “unknown world,” you will not be alone. Seagulls perched on the canopy tips welcome you in and smaller birds flit among the rafters above. Erin Merz of Mystic Aquarium, says, “We happily invite birds to nest in the Ocean Planet Pavilion and do not remove them. Most of the birds are sparrows.”
Mystic Aquarium has one of the nation’s largest outdoor tanks for beluga whales, and paying visitors are given the opportunity to actually touch them, as well as the penguins, sharks, and sting rays. Included in the visit is Challenge of the Deep, which highlights underwater film footage of the discovery of the R.M.S. Titanic, and equipment used for deep-sea exploration, such as the submersible, Turtle, which is the sister submersible of Alvin, the vehicle that provided the first glimpse of the Titanic.
For more information about Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration, visit mysticaquarium.org or call 860-572-5955.


7. Mystic Depot--model for American Flyer’s toy train station
Whether you arrive by train or are driving by the Mystic Depot, you may wonder, “Haven’t I seen this train station before?”
Yes, you may have—and you may have even played with a miniature version of it. Constructed in 1905, the Mystic Train Depot served as the inspiration for American Flyer’s “talking” toy train stations, which were made in the mid 1900s. Now a collector’s item, the toy model bearing the name “Mystic” can be viewed and even touched at Mystic Depot. When you press the button on the model, you’ll hear a far-a-way, long- ago train whistle and a conductor announce in a crackly voice, “All aboard…New York, Philadelphia, Chicago and all points west. Aboard!”
The real depot now serves Amtrak's Northeast Regional train, which brings visitors from New York City and Boston, and as the Greater Mystic Chamber of Commerce’s Welcome Center & Cyber Cafe, where visitors will find free maps, travel brochures, computers with Internet access, and friendly advice.
The Welcome Center volunteers can tell you where to find hiking trails, launchings sites for your kayaks, and views of “tall ships.” The Welcome Center also sells discount tickets to Mystic Seaport and to the Mystic Aquarium & Institute for Exploration; distributes free paperbacks donated by the Friends of the Mystic & Noank Library; and provides free bike rentals (deposit required).
College student Dave Cloutier volunteers at the center simply because he loves Mystic. He especially enjoys stopping in Mystic’s historic downtown to “grab a coffee and chat with the people around me.” Well-read, he delights in sharing his little-known secrets with others. “I love seeing the look on visitors’ faces when they discover something neat about Mystic.” If you like storm stories, he can tell you all about what happened to the area during the Hurricane of 1938.
 “The 7 Wonders of Mystic” are all located within two miles of Mystic Depot. Accommodations are available within walking distance of the Mystic Depot and some hotels will retrieve guests with prior notice. For more information about touring Mystic, including other locations for free bike rentals and a list of attractions, restaurants, accommodations, and events, visit: mysticchamber.org, or call 860-572-1102.


The “7 Wonders” Controversy
Not all locals agreed with me on which sites deserved to be among the top seven wonders, so Patch.com gave the community a chance to vote for the “8th Wonder.”
Contenders for the 8th Wonder Title:
8. Gloria the Goose at Olde Mistick Village--the regal yet cranky, arthritic goose that has been reigning over the duck pond since the mid-1980s. Olde Mistick Village, a colonial, New England style shopping center, includes a Visitor Information Center (with shopping discount coupons), movie theater and playhouse. Info: oldemistickvillage.com, (860) 536-4941. It also serves as the Mystic bus stop for Peter Pan Bus Lines, bringing visitors from New York City and Boston.
9. Mystic River Railroad Bridge--the massive swing bridge opens for boats and closes for trains. Easily viewed from the Fort Rachel area, it’s fun to watch!
10. Mystic River Park—visitors can stroll its boardwalk along the Mystic River, rest on benches and watch boats go through the Mystic Drawbridge, fish, or just find a temporary place to tie up their dinghy or kayak. The park also serves as a gathering place for outdoor concerts, movies, festivals, and other town events—like when Santa comes to town on a tugboat! Watch my beagle/basset hound stroll along the boardwalk on MysticShops.TV (he’s the handsome dog on your left) at: http://mysticshops.tv/shari-pet-sitting/
11. Denison Homestead Museum--built in 1717, this home has been continuously owned for three centuries by the same family. You get a real sense of Mystic’s personal history when you see a Revolutionary War cloak discovered in the attic now hanging in a bedroom closet, and the charm of little Annie B. Denison who etched her name on a ground floor window pane with a diamond ring in 1873. Info: denisonhomestead.org, 860-536-9248
12. “Captain’s Row”-- the 19th century Greek revival homes along Mystic River (one former owner built coffins in the basement, another housed the Underground Railroad, and one broke sailing records). Mystic River Historical Society’s Mystic Riverside walking adventure map is available at: www.mystichistory.org/MRHSTourGravelnobg_72dpi.pdf
13. Mystic River’s Art Trail -- my term for the several art galleries from the Maritime Gallery at Mystic Seaport to the Mystic Arts Center on Water Street. Info: mysticseaport.org, (860) 572-5388 and mysticarts.org, 860-536-7601. The Mystic Arts Center also offers fun evening events such as “Art After Dark”--live art and music on the waterfront patio.
14. Peace Sanctuary — a hiking trail with a great view of the Mystic River beginning on River Road. It is maintained by the Denison Pequotsepos Nature Center, which, at its main location on Pequotsepos Road, offers eight miles of hiking trails where visitors can search for “bluebirds in the meadow, painted turtles or bullfrogs in the pond, admire our summer wildflower garden or simply enjoy a peaceful walk in the woods.” More info: dpnc.org, (860) 536-1216
15. Mystic & Noank Library -- donated by the prosperous Captain Elihu Spicer who designed every detail before his death, the Neo-Romanesque building includes a second floor vaulted ceiling shaped like a ship’s hull, stained glass windows, a comfy window seat with a breathtaking view of downtown Mystic, oriental carpets and an ongoing group puzzle. Info: mysticnoanklibrary.com, 860-536-7721
Voted “8th Wonder” of Mystic!
The Mystic & Noank Library was overwhelming voted the 8th Wonder. Visit this architectural gem to see why—and don’t forget to ask the librarians about their famous former resident, Emily the Library Cat.  
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About Author Lisa Saunders 

Feeling she left family behind when relocated with her husband from New York to Mystic, Lisa’s research into Mystic’s rich ship-building history recently led to the discovery that she lives up the street from the former home of a long-ago cousin, Captain Charles Sisson, who married Captain Wolfe’s widow (see 5th Wonder—Elm Grove Cemetery) after his wife Ann died at sea.
Now Lisa can “visit” family at a nearby cemetery where Captain Charles Sisson, his wife Ann, and their 10-month-old daughter, “Our Little Ida,” have their headstones. Charles’s stone, engraved with a sailing ship, declares: “The voyage is ended.” Sisson bought the house down the street from Lisa after he returned from an unsuccessful search for gold in California in 1858. Read more about Captains Wolfe and Sisson in Lisa’s upcoming book, Seafarer’s Trail: The Haunts and Homes of Mystic’s Famous Sea Voyagers. The book will also include a list of all of Mystic’s restaurants—A to Z.
A writer and publicist, Lisa gives talks on how to get free publicity; how to get a job, the American Civil War, sightseeing in Mystic; how to prevent the #1 birth defects virus, CMV (cytomegalovirus), and the “back story” to her books, which include:

Anything But a Dog!, Lisa’s memoir that recounts the unusual events that brought a homeless, 100-pound dog to the side of her younger daughter, born disabled by CMV. If purchased through the link to the National Congenital CMV Disease Registry and Research Program, a percentage is donated directly to CMV research and parent support. Visit: http://www.unlimitedpublishing.com/cmv/

Shays’ Rebellion: The Hanging of Captain Henry Gale, a short e-book that details the dramatic events surrounding a Revolutionary War veteran (Lisa’s ancestor), sentenced to hang for treason as a result of his leadership role in Shays’ Rebellion.

Ever True: A Union Private and His Wife, which also appears as a one-act play, is based on the love letters of Lisa’s great-great grandparents during the American Civil War.

Ride a Horse, Not an Elevator, a children’s novel based on Lisa’s childhood as a chubby city girl with a beagle named Donald Dog. Lisa and Donald Dog visit her grandparents’ farm in upstate New York where they find outhouses, charging cows and ornery horses. Includes grandma’s recipes and is a great read-aloud for schools and families.

Lisa’s free e-books, How to Get Published; How to Get a Job; and The 7 Wonders of Mystic--Mystic Pizza and Beyond! are available by clicking on their titles.

A Cornell University graduate, Lisa is available to speak to your group anywhere in the world and to give tours of Mystic, CT. To see her availability as a workshop presenter, visit Lisa at www.authorlisasaunders.com or e-mail her at saundersbooks@aol.com.

Monday, June 20, 2011

How to Get Cast in a Mystic Film

Didn't get a part as an extra in the movie, Mystic Pizza, staring Julia Roberts? Weren’t asked to be a zombie in the recent movie filmed at the Ramada Hotel--despite strolling back and forth in front of the hotel hoping the director would say, “Now there goes a real zombie?”

Don't despair, there are ways of getting into the upcoming movies rumored to be shot here next--or at least to be considered for a part as an extra in a commercial.

Just as I was pondering how I, a plump 50-year-old freelance writer, could get a small role in a film, I received an e-mail from my new friend Kristin of Mystv Studios, the local production company that makes commercials and the travel show, "Mystic Coast Connection," which plays continuously in 4,000 area hotels (their website states: "Get in Bed with Your Customers”).

Anyway, Kristin’s e-mail that may have launched me from obscurity, said, "I was wondering if you'd be interested in helping out on a commercial shoot on June 14 at the Newport Grand Casino. You and I would be PAs, so we’ll be fetching and holding light screens, checking off the shot list, and various other unglamorous things. It might be fun and I know it would be more fun for me if you were there!”

 

I had no idea what a PA was, and was only being asked because I might be “fun,” but I certainly wasn’t going to reject this chance to squeeze my image somewhere into this film!

Scheming how I could go from PA to film star (or at least film “extra”), I watched taped reruns of “I Love Lucy” to study Lucy's sneaky antics that landed her small roles in Ricky’s shows. Having a terrible sense of style, I wondered what I should wear to catch the director’s eye (my husband, Jim, usually arranges my outfit when I need to look decent). Just as I was e-mailing Jim to remind him to lay out something appropriate, I received another e-mail from Kristin: "You might be asked to be 'peanuts,' meaning filler for the commercial, so make sure your husband dresses you." There was hope I’d get in this commercial—and without any devious plotting!

On Tuesday morning, the day of the shoot, I began learning a whole new industry (such as P.A. means Production Assistant) —and that almost anyone can get into a film as an extra (or a “peanut”)—even me! And if a person has some talent, they can get paying roles as a “principal” or a “secondary” in practical films such as training videos (one actress at the shoot was using her down time to practice a five-page monologue for her upcoming role as an organ transplant recipient in an educational film).

I was told just before the shoot that a “grip” had been hired, so I wouldn’t be needed to hold and carry film equipment. Still wanting to look important, I brought my own clipboard—and it worked! Looking like a person in authority, the actors came to me with important questions that ranged from “Where is the bathroom?” to “Do you think my scene will be shot soon?” One woman, an extra, wanted to leave for a while so she could hang out in the smoking area. I reminded her that the slot machine scene, which required extras, was scheduled soon, but she replied, “Someone else told me it wouldn’t be for an hour or so.” Sure enough, right after she left, I got word it was time for the extras to leave for their scene. I offered to fill her spot (it’s a dog eat dog world out there), but was told I was needed where I was.

How was I was ever going to get my chance to play an extra? I told the cameraman and the directors more than once that I was willing to fill out a scene. No response. Kristin told me not to despair—they might still need me to heap food on my plate in the buffet scene or to dance in the nightclub scene. Since I didn’t want to admit I was a terrible, uncoordinated dancer just in case that was my only shot, I stressed that I was very good at eating—that I would be just perfect for the buffet scene. Not to brag, but I did win first place in a New Jersey pie eating contest—twice!

I was not requested for the buffet scene, but was asked to laugh in the comedy club scene (the camera man neglected to film us when the director elicited genuine laughter with a joke--so we had to laugh afterwards on the count of three). Despite my reservations, I was also needed on the dance floor of the nightclub scene. But I'm not sure you’ll see much of me in this commercial, which is due to be aired during the T.V. show, Wheel of Fortune, and several other places, because I was told by the director, “Now you dance in the back—look as though you are still trying to ‘find your way.’”

I guess that’s true—I am still trying to find “my way” to get into “the act,” but I did learn some valuable tips from the other actors, whose backgrounds included full-time acting professionals, a tradesman trying to earn a little extra money, casino goers who received an e-mail about the upcoming commercial, and retired individuals who read the audition notice in their local paper.

To learn about upcoming auditions in the Mystic area, read local online and print newspapers and sign up to receive audition notices by clicking the "Like" button on the Mystv Studios’ Facebook page and by registering with talent agencies, such as New England Actors.

If you audition for a part, bring a headshot and a resume.

What to wear if you just show up at a shoot: If you haven’t been told what to wear, a costume designer out of New York, Terry Thiry, suggests that women wear “a plain, neutral dress and bring accessories—a couple pairs of shoes, scarf, jewelry, jacket, and sunglasses. For a man, a pair of pants, button down shirt, dressier casual shirt (like a polo shirt), jacket, tie, and sunglasses.”

Good luck!

Lisa Saunders

P.S. The casino commercial is out! If you watch it several times, you might see me dancing in the background wearing a print skirt and a solid shirt. Will I be plucked from obscurity? If you like a challenge, see if you can find me at: http://www.youtube.com/user/mystvstudios#p/search/0/IXGNM47AmvI


P.S.S. If you would like to see my other "How To" advice, which ranges from "How To Get a Job" to "How to Promote Your Business," visit my "How To" Workshops blog at: http://howtoworkshops.blogspot.com/

Monday, June 13, 2011

How to Boat "Mystic Style"



by Lisa Saunders

I have never been accused of having style. But I do know how to get on a boat—especially since moving to Mystic. But I never bring the right accessories! Knowing what to wear and bring takes experience. Having been a landlubber until recently, I’m learning the hard way.

My first boat ride in Mystic was on the Sabino, the last wooden coal-fired steamboat still in operation (you can actually watch the coal being shoveled into the furnace the entire trip). It was a cool, breezy day and the ride wasn't too long—so there really wasn’t anything I needed to bring to feel comfortable.

My second trip on the Sabino, however, was a 90-minute evening excursion on a Saturday night with my husband, Jim. This time, I realized I should have brought a full-fledged picnic to enjoy the trip Mystic-style. I looked on in envy as passengers took out bottles of wine, plastic cups, cheese, crackers, and all sorts of delights from their wicker baskets. And there sat Jim and I, with a lousy jar of almonds and some bottled water we pulled from our ratty, old knapsack.

The following March, we took a seal watch cruise from the University of Connecticut's Avery Point Campus in Groton with Project Oceanology (we spotted about 200 seals lying on rocks in Fisher's Island Sound). This time, Jim and I were wet and cold because we disregarded the warning that we might get soaked if we rode on the bow of the re-outfitted offshore lobster boat. At least my feet stayed dry because I wore my thick, water-proof shoes, but poor Jim wore his leather ones (making me think of the stow-a-way sailor on Shackleton’s Trans-Antarctic expedition who had his toes amputated because he only had leather boots to wear).

In May, when we booked an evening sail on the schooner, Argia, I vowed things would be different. We would dress properly and bring some elegant snacks and drinks to enjoy. This time, we packed a bottle of wine along with our almonds and bottled water in our old knapsack. We even remembered to bring pretty, blue plastic cups in keeping with the color of the waters we were about to sail.

Well, I knew right away we underpacked when I saw a party of six adults pull out real wine glasses with their bottles of wine. Suddenly, my blue plastic cups seemed so cheesy—so inadequate on this tall, seaworthy sailboat. And when the adults broke out a tray of shrimp cocktail from their large, Mary Poppins-style picnic bag, that was too much. I tried to make friends with them so they’d share their shrimp with me, but they didn't warm up to my advances. Another family with young children also had the better of us. I couldn’t help being envious when they lifted one cheesy pizza slice after another from their Mystic Pizza take-out boxes. They didn't share with us either. Thankfully, the Argia provided cheese and crackers and fruit, so I ate a lot of that, loudly declaring things like, “Yummy!” so the others would think I preferred the Argia’s food to theirs.

My other mistake was that I was underdressed—it got very cold that foggy evening on the Mystic River and the Sound. The Argia did, however, provide blankets. The males on the voyage were too macho to wrap one around themselves, so they shivered like real men or went below decks.

Last weekend, we took another boat ride down the Mystic River—but this time, on a much smaller boat. Operated by Mystic River Tours, we felt completely pampered lounging on their 21-foot electric launch, complete with cup holders and comfy, padded benches. Since it would only be a 40-minute trip, I didn’t pack anything, especially since there was a canopy to keep the rain off. I didn’t even miss having shrimp cocktail because Captain Rick Nestler kept us thoroughly entertained with stories of life along the River, such as why Fort Rachel of the War of 1812 was named after Rachel (it was rumored she provided comfort to the men in more ways than one). This boat can be found at Steamboat Wharf, next to the Mystic River Drawbridge.

Most of my boating time now will be spent on my friend Cindy’s extra kayak. I had always wanted a friend with a boat—but had envisioned the kind where I wouldn’t have to do anything except sit and enjoy the view. At least there is little to pack in preparation for our paddling trips because there simply isn’t room. Since my visor tends to blow off my head when kayaking the Mystic River, I doubt I will even bother packing that anymore.

More info on the boats I’ve ridden:

Argia: 860-536-0416

Cindy’s Kayak: You will have to get to know Cindy in order for her to invite you, but there are places in Mystic where you can rent a kayak, such as Riverdog Kayak Rental. To learn how to launch yourself in a kayak, Cindy teaches you how in my video of  her at: http://www.youtube.com/user/LisaSaundersCom?feature=mhee#p/u/5/oQDOq9eiLsw

Project Oceanology: (860) 445-9007, (800) 364-8472.There was a Patch.com reporter on our seal watch trip, so if you want to see some cold, salty spray, seals, and the back of Jim's head, watch this: http://montville-ct.patch.com/articles/project-oceanology-seal-cruise-with-video-3#video-5155164

Riverdog Kayak Rental at Seaport Marine: 860-333-3198 (Co-owner, Suzanne Simpson, says she and her husband named their business after their sleepy greyhound you'll see with them under their tent. They offer my dog, Bailey, a treat when we stroll by. Maybe they'll give your dog one too!)

Sabino: 860.572.5351

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Gloria the Goose Survives to See Another Christmas at Olde Mistick Village


Despite the name of the shop, The Gray Goose Cookery, it does not specialize in cooking geese—instead, this gourmet kitchen store was instrumental in saving Gloria, the regal yet cranky, arthritic goose residing at Olde Mistick Village.
“Earlier this year, an employee of The Gray Goose Cookery told us that Gloria was ailing,” says Christine Robertson, Office Manager of Olde Mistick Village. “She looked a little sluggish to them. She wasn’t her normal, feisty self.”
Gloria first came to Village in the mid 1980s when her owner could no longer care for her. Knowing the Village maintained duck ponds for their shoppers to enjoy, her owner thought Gloria could live out her life among the ducks who were permanent residents there. A goose in captivity can live up to 40 years.
When the Village office learned that Gloria wasn’t feeling well, they called in a vet. “These birds are part of our family, and Gloria is the reigning bird. We call her Queen Gloria because she is very bossy and hisses when displeased—but she is very protective of her subjects—especially the swan we once had named Gracie. They were good friends and if a duck or person got too close to the swan, Gloria would warn them off with a hiss.”
The vet, who doesn’t know for sure if Gloria is a female, discovered that she had an infection. So every day, the maintenance man in charge of feeding the birds caught Gloria and held her close to his chest so Robertson could give her an injection. “She started feeling better after the first day, so catching her for the rest of the treatment was almost impossible!” Gloria recovered completely, and despite her arthritis and a slight limp, is still reigning as queen in the main duck pond.
And what happens if age and arthritis eventually get the better of Gloria? “We have a duck pond near the maintenance barn that we call the ‘Geriatric Ward.’ That is where we retire all the birds who are too old or feeble to defend themselves from an aggressive duck.”
Spring is a particularly busy time at the Village because of mating season. Ducks fly in to raise their ducklings then fly off again. Many, however, live at the Village year-round. “Why would they want to leave?” asks Robertson. “They have everything they need here.” They are fed five, 50-pound bags of duck food per week by the maintenance crew and the public can feed them duck pellets purchased from the Franklin’s General Store at the Village.
For more information about Olde Mistick Village, visit oldemistickvillage.com or call (860) 536-4941.
(Note: This first appeared in the Mystic River Press on December 16, 2010.)

Gloria was sick again in 2011--incurring a $3,000 vet bill! Visit the Gray Goose Cookery if you would like to donate to her care.

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

How To Have a Party in Mystic

Dear Reader,

Jim and I just hosted our first Memorial Day Weekend party since moving to Mystic from New York last summer. None of our new neighbors came—are they are still recovering from my "eye-opening" debut last August when I first moved in?

We bought a house within walking distance of downtown Mystic so I would have a fun place to walk our beagle/basset hound, Bailey. At the start of my first stroll downtown, a woman pulled over in her van, and said, "Excuse me."

Expecting her to ask for directions to Mystic Pizza or some other tourist attraction, I wasn't prepared for what she really wanted to know: "Do you realize the back of your skirt is tucked into your underwear?"

Is that why the neighbors still shoo their children indoors whenever Bailey and I walk by?

Anyway, I wanted our first full summer in Mystic to begin just as it had in previous years—with us inviting everyone we know to a Memorial Day Weekend party at the last moment possible. I dread the work of preparing the house and yard for a party, so I figure it’s best to invite folks within a day or two of the event—that way they won’t expect too much because they'll know I barely had time to prepare.

Although all of my neighbors said they already had plans and couldn’t come (is my first dog-walking outfit still burned in their memory?), we were able to rustle up some new friends who were willing to come: Jim’s co-workers who had never met me (and were therefore unafraid of my wardrobe); Bambi (yes, that is her legal name), who felt compelled to rescue me from my lost and lonely state when we first met at the Department of Motor Vehicles last summer; and a few others who were happy not to have to prepare their own home for a shindig.

Watching Jim clean off our backyard patio with the leaf blower, I thought how lucky our guests were that I had learned from a party in our New York home that leaf blowers were for cleaning outside, not inside.

Our dog before Bailey was Riley, a 100-pound black lab-mix with long hair. Preparing for a “Girl’s Night In” party for my high school friends one evening, I realized I just wasn’t going to have time to vacuum up Riley’s kinky, black hair rolling across the floor and wrapped around chair legs. Everything else was in order. The food was laid out, delicate wine glasses face up, ready to be filled, and water mixed with cinnamon was bubbling on the stove to disguise the doggy smells. What happened next is an excerpt from my memoir, Anything But a Dog!:

"Suddenly I had a brilliant idea! Our leaf blower could blast all the hair to one corner of the house in seconds! Then I could quickly gather it up. Energized by this innovative thought, I flung open the mudroom door that led directly into the garage. Beholding the machine that would clean my house in an instant, I wondered why no one else had ever thought of this before!

"Collecting the leaf blower with its long, orange outdoor electrical cord, I dragged the contraption through the mudroom. Plugging it into a kitchen socket, I pondered a second career for myself—move over Martha Stewart! Adjusting the nozzle toward the floor, I flipped on the switch. The machine sprang to life with a loud resounding woosh. And poof! The dog hair vanished. But not where I wanted it to go! It wasn’t racing tidily toward one corner of the house. Instead, fluffs of it flew high into the air. It landed on ceiling cobwebs and clung to them. Black hair also settled on top of the salsa, hummus, and tortilla chips and gently drifted into the wine glasses. Not exactly what I had planned!

"I wiped as much of the hair off the table and counter surfaces as I could before my guests arrived. Just as I was blowing the hair off the food and out of the wine glasses, the doorbell rang. Once my friends were all seated, and had eaten their fill, I entertained them with the account of my leaf blower disaster. It felt great to make them laugh. I decided, however, that in order to keep the giggles going, it would be best not to burden them with the fact that I’d turned on the blower after their food and wine glasses were already laid out..."

Perhaps you, Dear Reader, may find yourself invited to our party next year. Knowing what you know now, do you dare come?

P.S. My memoir, Anything But a Dog!, is available on Amazon and in downtown Mystic at the Green Marble Coffee House, 8 Steamboat Wharf, Mystic CT 06355, (860) 572-0012